Sunday, October 4, 2015

Old Bloggers Award

So, as I said in my previous post (notice how I didn't say "my last post" there), I was reading Expat Mum's post about old bloggers, and she gave me an award. Just like the old days. The award is the Dragon Award for Loyalty, and it's only for people who've been blogging since 2010. I don't really get it. Are dragons known for their loyalty? Or just for being old? Anyway, here it is, and thank you very much.


I then have to tell you seven things about myself that you may not know. Here goes:

I like listening to The Archers, but I'm not obsessive. If I miss it, I miss it.

Husband has the masculine version of my name (think Paul and Pauline, Richard and Ricarda, Justin and Justine - that kind of thing). I like it, not least because it often provides a really easy conversation opener at a social occasion.

I always hated being tall, and seldom wore heels in my teens and twenties. Husband is my height, so when we first got together, and for many years, that "seldom" went down to "never". Then I bought a pair of heels for a fancy-dress do, and really liked them. The next time I was thinking of wearing them, my daughter (aged about 9 at the time) was watching me dress. I made some comment about not wearing the shoes because they made me taller than Daddy, and she said she didn't think that mattered and I should wear them anyway. That comment completely changed my attitude. I now wear heels if I want to, and I enjoy them. It's not just that I want to model to my daughter a more confident attitude than I have had (it looks like she is going to be tall too) - though that is true. Something in me just shifted, the moment she said what she said.

I don't have lots of favourite films that I can watch over and over. I'd always rather watch something new, because there is so much good stuff out there. However, I do have a very few favourites... Hang on a minute, I think I've shared this in a blog post before... that's the trouble with being an old blogger... you're bound to repeat yourself... but in case you missed it last time, my old favourite dvds are Billy Elliot, The Blind Side, The Full Monty, and Elf (but only the first half where it's just ridiculous and politically incorrect, not the schmultzy second half, and I know you'll disagree with me, Potty Mummy, because you enjoy Zooey Deschanel singing Santa Claus is Coming to Town).

I am a big advocate of the split infinitive, because it's only pedantry that has made it unacceptable over all these years.

I have a colleague at work who shares my taste in names, and we have lots of conversations slagging off other people's choices. We always pre-fix what we say with "of course taste is very personal, but...". I realise this is going to end horribly badly, because one day we're going to be in full raucous humour about a name, and someone is going to come into the room and be offended.

That's six, not seven, but quite enough.

Now I have to name some old bloggers to pass the award on to. Very hard, given that Expat Mum has picked lots of the ones I would pick. But here goes. It's awarded to you, Paradise Lost in Translation, Reluctant Memsahib, Happy Homemaker UK, Motherhood the Final Frontier, Rosie Scribble, Is There a Plan B?, Kelloggsville, Sticky Fingers and Pig in the Kitchen. Blimey, I didn't realise I knew so many old bloggers. Maybe some of you could emerge from blogging mothballs and manage a post.
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6 comments:

  1. You made my heart so happy by selecting me for this award! My blogging has definitely dropped off, but I still hang in there. It is so nice to not be forgotten :) Thank you!

    It does feel like blogging has changed a lot over the years (reading your former post). I admit I love Instagram as a fast, visual way to connect with others. And yet the audience feels very different. As someone reminded me, all these platforms still are about being 'social' and connection. Over the years, the type of blogs I subscribe to have changed based on my current interests. There is so much wonderful advice and information out there. Blogging still has value. I miss the regular writing I used to do, and now I'm trying to get back at it by working on a book (yes, I'm now in that camp).

    I wish we had connected when we briefly lived in the same country. Who knows, it could still happen over a cup of tea or visit to a really great charity shop (miss those!). xo

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  2. I think Pig stopped blogging quite a while ago.
    I'm not exactly sure if this is an award for Old School Bloggers, but it was awarded that way to me. We may have completely bastardized it! Oops.

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  3. I think we old bloggers have dropped off a bit - I was looking at some of my posts from 2010 and I used to post about ten times a month - now it's about three.
    I haven't been over to comment over here for ages but I do see your posts pop up on Bloglovin so I do read. It's the commenting that's gone by the wayside a bit and that's a shame. I'm going to do more of it, to keep the conversations and friendships going.
    Ps _ so glad you gave Plan B a poke: that's got her blogging again which is lovely.

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    1. Scrub that - it's not Bloglovin I find you on, it's my Blogger dashboard. Still don't know why I signed up to Bloglovin - they said all the blogs I followed would disappear but they are still there.

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  4. Are dragons loyal? I had no idea - I thought they were just fearsome and particularly good at protecting princesses! :) I enjoyed reading your little known facts about you, in particular the wearing heels one as I used to feel the same way about heels making me taller than my husband. Generally I do stick to flats, but occasionally I wear heels and tell myself that it's just an old fashioned thing that the man should be taller!

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  5. I don't comment as much as I used to but I do, like Trish, still read them. I find it very hard when people abruptly stop blogging. I have been reading about some peoples lives for so long I feel as if I know them and yet I don't and then they are gone, It's very odd. I been blogging now since 2005. I sometimes wonder if it's time to stop but I often read my own old posts, it's like opening a diary so I keep on but definitely write less personally now. Your list of people has taken me back to some old blogs I haven't visited in a long time. Thank you

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