One of my favourite blogs is Happy Homemaker UK. She's an American mom living in the south of England. She's just about to return to America, and I will miss her beautiful posts all about English life. If you want to feel good about England, scroll back through her blog, and see all the wonderful places you can go, and all the amazing things you can visit. I wonder, has she been in the pay of the British Tourist Authority?!
To me, she has exemplified the approach that I tried to maintain, when I was living in the US and this blog was called "Not wrong, just different". Her acceptance of, and fondness for, all things British is evident in all she writes. I've found it affirming, reading her posts over the years. Yes, Britain IS lovely, isn't it?
I haven't been blogging much lately. I've got busy with other things, and I do quite a lot of writing in my job, which makes me less inclined to write at home. I was interested to hear my job described as "Grant Writer" the other day. That's an American term, which I'd not heard this side of the Atlantic before. I like it. It's not technically accurate - the job is writing applications to get grants, not writing grants. However, it's good shorthand for what is involved, and "Application Writer" really doesn't have the right ring. The British equivalent is something like "Trusts Fundraiser", or you quite often see job title variations such as "Trusts Manager", which is all wrong, as you're not managing the trusts at all. You're trying to get money out of them. Sometimes it's "Trusts and Foundations Manager" which is a case of tautology, really. I mean, does anyone know what the difference between a Trust and a Foundation is? Incidentally, they're all called Foundations in the US.
Job titles are often ridiculous, though, aren't they? I mean, what does a "Knowledge Manager" do? I remember being quite shocked the first time I heard that a company had a "Human Resources" Department, rather than a "Personnel" Department. How could you treat people as just another category of resource? Rather telling, really.
Meanwhile (since this has developed into a rambly updating-you-about-my-life kind of a post, rather than one that is coherent in any way), 16-yo is starting GCSE's proper tomorrow. Two week of an inordinate number of exams. He had his Spanish oral a couple of weeks ago, and as he left the house, I said to Husband "We have a son who's doing GCSEs. How can that be?"
10-yo has decided she's going to start giving a small proportion of her pocket money to charity, and put another small proportion in a savings account. "I'm sure I'll need money when I'm old", she said. I was impressed. I mean, most of us hardly bother to think much about our pension before the age of 40, so to start at 10 seems very responsible. "I think it will be useful to have some money saved up for my gap year, don't you?" she continued. "Old" is a matter of perspective.
13-yo is trying a dairy-free, sugar-free diet, recommended by a homeopath, to combat his hay fever. What they call in America, "seasonal allergies". The sugar-free bit is hard to get round, though he's thrown himself with gusto into the deprivation of cakes/biscuits/chocolate that it involves - all credit to him. The dairy-free bit isn't too bad. You know why? Because I am a blogger, and I know that when you need advice on these kinds of things, blogs are great resources. Thank you, blogging world, for being so full of ideas on everything from how to organise a Harry Potter party for a 10 year old, to how to cook dairy-free toad in the hole.
I hope you feel you've caught up with my life! Rambling over. I'm off now to walk the dog, and buy white underarmour for cricket-loving son.
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Ah, a new job! How did I miss that? I haven't been online much either recently. Life is very busy. And yes, Britain is utterly lovely.
ReplyDeleteWell, it's not new. I started last Sept. Still feels new-ish, but I haven't written about it much, so perhaps that's why you hadn't noticed.
DeleteGood luck with the GCSEs! Would be interested to hear how well the US education prepared him for the British exams....and congrats on the job (if I haven't said that already). x
ReplyDeleteWhen I see my two younger ones doing exams, on the basis that it will prepare them for public exams in the future, I feel a bit sorry for them. Oldest didn't really do exams in the US system (he claims he did, but they were pretty low-key, as I remember them), and I think a couple of years preparation has been good enough. He's not brilliant in exams - possibly doesn't do himself justice - but I don't think that would necessarily be any different if he'd been practising since the age of 10.
DeleteDid you also know that employees are now called "Talent" and what used to be Personnel or HR Managers are now called Talent something-or-others? So ridiculous.
ReplyDeleteRidiculous... but I quite like the idea of being Talent.
DeleteLove to read your ramblings! Glad to hear all is well :)
ReplyDeleteIt's good to have an update on your work - I hadn't heard of a job like that before. Thanks for pointing me to the Happy Homemaker's blog - I've got lots of reading to catch up on now, and lots of English places to 'visit' which I haven't managed to do in my nearly 30 years of living here. :)
ReplyDeleteGood luck to 16 yr old with the GCSEs.
Dairy free toad in the hole? But it's a batter!
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